Back talk

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Lately I've found myself reminiscing about the past and before you think sentimental I've been thinking about certain people I can't really stand the sight of.  I've realized that some friendships just change or people who you think would /should be open to a friendship are just too self involved to realize what a good friend is.  Best to just turn your back on petty stupidity and walk ahead, and let me tell you the back is just as beautiful as the front.  Don't be so focused on your front that you neglect your back, after all we have to give the haters some parting gift don't we?

Let's give them something to talk about and next time you buy a top turn it around to look at the back.  Don't keep going for the crotchet and lace back that is see through but really go a bit classier and edgier with your clothes.  First understand how to go backless: if your bra strap has to show keep it moving.  Bra's come in different sizes and shapes and there are those you can just attach to your breast and you can call it a day.  Having that strap across your back or just your bra being visible is just tacky and not okay, we as women are the classy ones in the human race.  It's a tough job but somebody's gotta do it and it might as well be the ones' in heels.

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My personal wishlist: get a black long sleeved shirt with a scoop back, just to pair that with a red pleated skirt and a pair of flats...  Before you just buy any kind of backless number decide what the endgame is, are you hoping to be edgy, classy, fun and flirty?  Remember that a backless number is also another impression of who you are.  Think about this, your teacher sees you walk away, your boss sees you walk away, your parents see you walk away, your priest, your buddy, the cashier...  The list goes on but definitely keep that in mind when shopping.

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If you're not afraid of some tan lines then definetly go for a piece with an interesting cut-out design or criss-cross pattern up top.  Keep in mind to pull the hair up and away from your back perhaps in a sleek side-pony, chic bun or chignon.

Remember to be backless with a purpose don't just cut some holes on the back of a shirt and think you're done no!  Play around with the back a little perhaps a cute long necklace with a pendant could make a cool and alluring effect.  Or perhaps you're looking for a great way to show off all those back muscles you've recently acquired after busting your buns in the gym, a scoop back is a great way to show of your new toned friends.  Wanna go for something fancier?  Try a deep V-cut in the back for a clean and sophisticated look.  Be careful not to go too low for fear of showing a little more than you want, imagine sitting down and well we all get to see the tip of the moon.  For crying out loud be careful about the backless shirt, a misconception we have today is the more skin the better.  In fact we as women are naturally attractive and it's important that we leave people with imagination.

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